The youth these days is being involved in many wrong activities, choosing a wrong path is never a priority of human mind, the people on this path are there because of some reason or unsatisfaction from the other path. Unemployment, No Job Satisfaction, Daily Cruel News Updates or other personal problems there are many reasons why the person has chosen a way where he gets away from his family. We all call them bad and behave with them like if they are the criminals, Actually in reality we ourself make these innocent minds, criminals.
But no one thinks of the real reason which creates these devils/criminals who in reality are innocent who just need someone to hear them.
The situation of these brains is actually similar to that of an orphan who has many things to say and ask but no one to listen. You read it right, situation of being an addict or a bad guy is formed when someone has nobody around to speak with, discuss the issues, the thoughts & different things. The mind desires rest and once no thoughts and queries ar shared they create the mind very serious and restless, therefore the person decides to require medicine to create the mind rest or opt for a wrong path to keep the mind busy.
A child has several queries of various levels, sort & even foolish, however they're all created by the human brain and are to be answered for the satisfaction of the brain. persistently oldsters scold child in such a rough or cruel manner that the kid starts being frightened of the parent, he's typically frightened by the anger of the parent and feels lonely.
Here starts the issue of 'COMMUNICATION GAP Between PARENTS & CHILD'. The gap started between the two affects the child's mind & take him towards negativity, the child starts searching someone who could understand him but never tell it to the parent. The fear increases day by day and the child finds no one for his questions. At a stage he starts assumeing that if his oldsters think him a fool due to these queries, others may additionally suppose constant or he can be a fool truly. It sounds funny however isn't, a child thinking himself a fool because his parents don't feel like answering his queries or they feel he is a fool thinking those things. Many times the misunderstandings or short fights between the Parents effect the most on a child's mind. A calm and free atmosphere of home relaxes the mind the most, but if a child finds the Parent's fighting or arguing loudly he gets frightened which increases the communication gap between the parents and the child.
The generation GAP between the parents and the children may never be filled, 20 yrs (2 decades) is a huge time and the change in the society, the daily developments and other necessities also change. The people born 15-20yrs ago started using mobile phone at the age of 8-12 and the children born 2-3yrs ago were using mobile phone at age of 1yr or even earlier. The parents will have to understand the situation of the childs mind and tackle it accordingly, anger is not always the solution.
But no one thinks of the real reason which creates these devils/criminals who in reality are innocent who just need someone to hear them.
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| Scolding Children |
The situation of these brains is actually similar to that of an orphan who has many things to say and ask but no one to listen. You read it right, situation of being an addict or a bad guy is formed when someone has nobody around to speak with, discuss the issues, the thoughts & different things. The mind desires rest and once no thoughts and queries ar shared they create the mind very serious and restless, therefore the person decides to require medicine to create the mind rest or opt for a wrong path to keep the mind busy.
A child has several queries of various levels, sort & even foolish, however they're all created by the human brain and are to be answered for the satisfaction of the brain. persistently oldsters scold child in such a rough or cruel manner that the kid starts being frightened of the parent, he's typically frightened by the anger of the parent and feels lonely.
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| Communication Gap |
Here starts the issue of 'COMMUNICATION GAP Between PARENTS & CHILD'. The gap started between the two affects the child's mind & take him towards negativity, the child starts searching someone who could understand him but never tell it to the parent. The fear increases day by day and the child finds no one for his questions. At a stage he starts assumeing that if his oldsters think him a fool due to these queries, others may additionally suppose constant or he can be a fool truly. It sounds funny however isn't, a child thinking himself a fool because his parents don't feel like answering his queries or they feel he is a fool thinking those things. Many times the misunderstandings or short fights between the Parents effect the most on a child's mind. A calm and free atmosphere of home relaxes the mind the most, but if a child finds the Parent's fighting or arguing loudly he gets frightened which increases the communication gap between the parents and the child.
The generation GAP between the parents and the children may never be filled, 20 yrs (2 decades) is a huge time and the change in the society, the daily developments and other necessities also change. The people born 15-20yrs ago started using mobile phone at the age of 8-12 and the children born 2-3yrs ago were using mobile phone at age of 1yr or even earlier. The parents will have to understand the situation of the childs mind and tackle it accordingly, anger is not always the solution.
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| The Parent Child Friendly Communication |
If we want to work on the bad attitude/wordings/nature/thoughts/choosen paths of the young generation we will first need a great bound between the parents and the children, the child if shares all the daily happenings with the parents will never go on the wrong path. But first of all the parents need to understand their children the Communication Gap should be decreased so that the child never feel lonely and is never heavy minded. Even if he's an adult of age 20+ even then he has very little experience of life. His way to see things & situations around depends on how much is he being supported by his parents/elders, sometimes parents also don't get to know about the things that the child is going through so it is very important to maintain the communication & friendly atmosphere between the parents and the children.
